Seven years ?

I'v erecently spoken to two people who have been through a break up with their partners. Both said it took them seven years to really get over it and feel ready to let someone else into their lives. I also got thinking about how it could work with me staying friends with him but never wanting to see her. How is he going to manage to do that ? I suspect it would mean we rarely see each other.

I had a message from him today asking to borrow the sat nav for a forthcoming trip he nneeds to make, but also suggesting that I may like to have our dog over for weekends or part days. Rightly or wrongly I got suspicious and thought it was beacuse they didn't want the dog around, so said that. The response I got was that he was only trying to be nice and I immediately thought he was being horrible. So I thought why did I react like that ? And I guess it is because the trust has gone. That is so sad as he was the only person in the world that I fully trusted. I do trust both my daughters but I don't want to burden them with my worries - I need to support them as they are upset too.

I phoned the bank today to see how to change the account into my name only especially as all my salary goes into it. We have to go into a branch and sign something - so that is something we need to arrange soon.

I'm so scared about the financial side of things. I've heard so many horror stories and am now imaging all the really bad things that could happen including having to sell the house and the girls and I having no where to live - omg - omg - omg........

I can't stand all of this .....................................................................................................<sob>