In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Friday, 28 January 2011

I hate 2011 already :-(

So far 2011 has been a crap year.... today my youngest daughter fell out with her boyfriend. She doesn't at the moment know if they are still together or not - she loves him but he is being an idiot. Sound familiar ??

We were supposed to be going to his new band's first gig but ended up staying at home watching videos with a Chinese meal. Whilst its lovely to be doing this with my daughter I really hate her being upset. She too is having a down time and is also upset about her dad leaving.

I'm usually such a positive person but I still can't drag myself out of the dumps.

I do at last have something to look forward to as one of my friends has booked a couple of days away for us at the end of February - just to have time to chill out.
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