In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 25 January 2011

More broken things

I don't know what is wrong with me I keep dropping things. Maybe its tiredness. Today I dropped the cat's bowl and it smashed everywhere. Here I am once again at 20 to 1 in the morning trying to get things all done before I go to sleep. At some point I will work out how to do everything in a normal day.

Not much else to say today except I talked it all through with another friend and I still love him - can't hate him - hate her with a passion  - feel so sad about not sharing the future with him and that plans we had made won't happen. I had hoped to retire early and travel - that won't happen now so she has totally screwed the rest of my life up. The manipulating ***** ................grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr........................I hate her soooooooooooooo much......................... I hate to say I am wishing all kinds of horrible things for her.
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