I was just about to leave for work this morning when my husband appeared on the door step (well actually he drove there) with our dog. Remember yesterday I posted a comment about the things that he and she put on facebook ? Well he came around to finish the discussion we started last night about the impact this had on our daughter and me. He couldn't see why we were upset. I tried to explain that our daughter is upset because it feels to her that he has a new family and has lost interest in them. He couldn't see that either. I requested that they took more care in what they posted and he said he couldn't ask them to do that.
Anyhow, he must have thought about it because I got a text apologising and saying that he had talked with the manipulating ***** who had said it was all innocent fun and didn't realise we could see it. They would be more careful in future. He also texted our daughter to apologise and say that he will always be her father and wanted to be part of her life. Her response was that she wouldn't add him back straight away.
I did send him another text pointing out that he had said that the manipulating *****'s daughter was being difficult but they seemed to be accepting that more than our daughters reaction and that wasn't fair.
I noted when he came around that he is being very short and snappy and he said he was stressed !!!!! And I'm not ?????
Anyhow I've been plotting with friends tonight and we are planning to go and see the play Calendar Girls. That along with one or two other things such as arranging a Burlesque workshop is getting me out and about.
I had another cry in the car on the way home from work today as well as an angry fit about her again. I was shaking and felt quite weak and sick. Things are again starting to get on top of me especially the Chair of Governors things I am being asked to do during the daytime - hello I have a job I have to do........ I'm looking forward to a lie in - I hope I can.
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