In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Thursday, 13 January 2011

I'm exhausted

I'm finding at the moment I am really just getting through the day. I feel numb and am very much going through the motions. I feel exhausted - mentally, emotionally and physically. This is so not like me - I usually have loads of energy. I suspect it has something to do with the fact I am not sleeping properly.

I got no texts from my husband today at all. I visited my friend who had her op yesterday - it was good to see she was herself and looking well. Hopefully she will be out at the weekend. My daughter told me that her and her boyfriend are back together so that was really good news - she is happy :-)

I can't really get my mind around writing much today - sorry........
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