In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Thursday, 20 January 2011

Facebook is going to be a problem

So we've had a bit of an upset tonight thanks to facebook. The manipulating ***** posted something on her daughters status naming my husband and her and my husband responded - of course my daughters and I can see this. As a consequence of this one of my daughters has now blocked her father off facebook. She doesn't want to see him with his 'new family'. As I saw him tonight I had to let him know that insensitive postings by her and him will likely lead to trouble and more hurt. He couldn't see that and said it was madness to expect her not to post anything about them - its been only just over two weeks since he left !!!

I think facebook has a valuable role to play in social networking but it can also be very damaging as I have found - the affair started on facebook and now comments and status postings are going to cause more hurt.

I'm not looking forward to the show tomorrow - some of her close friends are coming to see it.

I just want to hug him and him to hug me back :-(
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