In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 19 January 2011

Moving on ?

I had a lovely chat today with a gay friend of mine who too had split up from his partner a few years ago. He is such a positive upbeat person. I have to say I felt a whole a lot better after it. I am crying less and starting to get used to being on my own more. In some ways it is nice to be able to do what I want without worrying about getting home for my husband - I wonder if I am starting to move on now ?

I decided tonight that I will go to an anniversary party in early Feb that I was initially unsure about going to on my own. I'm looking forward to dressing up and letting my hair down amongst friends.

'Dragonfly out in the sun you know what i mean dont you know
Butterflies all havin' fun you know what I mean
Sleepin' peace when day is done that's what I mean
And this old world is a new world and a bold world for me'
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