In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 24 January 2011

Not looking forward to the next few weeks

Struggled to get up this morning - again! I dragged myself to work and managed to get going eventually. I'm lucky I have my job and nice colleagues.

I had a call from my husband mid morning to let me know that a lady I was rather fond of from church had died in her sleep this morning. It was expected but just another thing to whip up my emotions. I had to try really hard not to cry at work. The funeral is week after next - I will be a state at it :-( This week and next I have some difficult governors meetings to do which I am not looking forward to.

My husband was on 'The Weakest Link' tonight. After watching it I just fell in love with him all over again - he is such a nice man and I miss him so much.

I'm finding at the moment that to fit everything in I need to leave work earlier - that is putting strain on me getting my work done.

Once I got home this evening I decided to make myself a small meal and then went to bed early. I've been in bed doing things on the laptop and trying to catch up with some things. I think its time to go to sleep now - or at least try....... what will tomorrow bring ?
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