In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Saturday, 22 January 2011

Another bad start

I thought I would write this earlier today as it is the last night of Music Hall and then we have an after show party - so there is no telling what time I will get back and what state I will be in.........

The start to the day was awful. I didn't sleep well and eventually got up around 10am with my eyes all crusty and in a cold sweat - it took me a while to get going. I had arranged to meet my husband in town to change our joint bank account into my name only. When I had parked up I couldn't find the paperwork so assumed I had left it at home. I rang him and as he was on the road he drove to our house and hunted for it with no luck. So I had to leave the car park and drive home - I too couldn't find it. Eventually he found it in the boot of my car - it had slipped between the seat and gone into the boot. All of this stupidly caused me to cry and feel completely duff. My head is not working properly at all - I guess the emotion is taking over :-( Anyhow we got to the bank and sorted that out.

At this point (1pm) I hadn't had a drink or anything to eat - so he took me for a cuppa and insisted on buying me a toastie.

Following that my daughter joined me in town and we did a bit of shopping before going to Halfords to have her bulb changed in her tailgate light. Well another trauma - it was temperamental but eventually we got it working, however by the time she got home the indicator light had stopped working. Someone or something is trying their utmost to de stable me - won't be hard at the moment.

So now I am sitting here writing this and will be leaving soon to watch the show. Some nice friends have offered me a lift so I can have a drink. More later...........
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