In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Friday, 17 December 2010

Why did Salmon make me cry?

I had the good fortune to go to London today to visit the London 2012 Olympic Site. Its still a building site but very interesting. Afterwards we went to Formans restuarant for lunch. They served Salmon and I cried..... itr made me think of my husband and how he had scrambled eggs with Salmon one Christmas morning for breakfast. They also sell loads of nice food and I immediately thought how he would love it. There is something around every where that reminds me of time together and his likes.

This evening my mother in law called me for the first time since she found out. She too thought he was an idiot. She was brilliant and so supportive. Told me I was and will continue to be family and welcome around at any time. So I've decided to go with the girls on Christmas day and try and have as good a day as possible. She and the rest of the family will understand if I have a 'moment'.

I have so many supportive friends and they along with the girls are keeping me going at the moment. Everyone says I am a strong woman..... I hope so.....
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