Another up and down day and at some points seemingly 'normal'. Had another discussion today about 'her' and was told by my husband that he thought I had started to accept the situation - as if !!! One of the things he noted was that he felt like an outsider now as the girls and I had become a threesome. What does he expect..... I did note that his decision was his choice and he has created this situation. He also noted that there were no photos taken of him with anyone - they are all of him alone.
I went for a few hours to a friends house this evening. When I told my husband I was going he seemed very surprised and sort of upset that we were not spending the time together. Normally we would veg out on boxing day and not go anywhere.
My friend cannot understand how a woman can do this to someone elses marriage and also have a new man going to live with her and her three kids so soon. She thinks she is weird and not thinking about her children. I think that says it all. She is manipulative and only really thinks about herself.
We talked about the massive changes my husband is going to have to go through - everything is going to change for him including his eating habits - he won't be able to afford the food he loves so much. So he'll probably lose the weight he needs to lose, so a good thing from that perspective.
I need to find something to do tomorrow lunchtime as he is going to see her again..... I still hate her and still love him :-(
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