In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Thursday, 16 December 2010

Not a great day :-(

Feeling down today. Found out I had passed my ou exam which I was convinced I had failed. I should have been happy but I cried.

I told some more folk today and got the usual reaction of shock ! I also had a rant at a friend of ' the other woman ' saying exactly what I thought of her. She stood there and listened. I feel mean having done that as she is not to blame but I hope she repeats what I said back to the manipulating *****.

I still have hope in my heart that he will come back. I know he needs to go first but is it wrong to be hopeful?

Hope.......
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