In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Saturday, 11 December 2010

What now ?

So here we go, what do I do ? I still love him and still want to be with him. Christmas is fast coming up. I could ask him to leave now - but I want to stay friends and why would I put my soulmate and best friend out on the street ? So I'm sure everyone will think I am mad, but I've decided to make the most of the last few weeks we will be together before he moves in with 'the other woman'. I know it will hurt and I will be in tears a lot, but I hope that my friends who have been there for me so far will continue to be so supportive....

I can't understand how he doesn't see how manipulative she has been (some things I can't say on here). She claims she loves him but some of the things she has done suggests that she cannot really love him - why doesn't he see that ?

I am devastated, hurting so much inside, I am so confused, I'm falling to pieces - can't be sure I am doing the right thing for me - it feels right - but am I right ?

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