In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 27 December 2010

Somber then drunk !

Well its been a somber day today - didn't feel great most of the day - didn't want to do much and was very tired. So really didn't do much except examine and think more about how we got to where we are. My husband went out at lunchtime to see her (grrrr). Thankfully I haven't heard about it at all.

A friend messaged me and told me she is convinced that 'the other woman' has seduced my husband - so I'm right !

This evening I went to the pub with some friends and I had three glasses of wine and am drunk ! Oh and a shot. Had a great chin wag with them and enjoyed myself. To be fair to my husband he did pick us all up and drop us off home.

One of the advantages of not being attached is that I can do more of this and not worry about having to get home ! Is that bad ?
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