In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Friday, 18 March 2011

Why does he do this ?

Well I have been away for a couple of days on business. I come back look in the fridge and find that my husband has bought me some of my favourite German food that you can only get in a particular shop. It is so nice of him to do that but its really messing with my emotions. How should I react to that ???

I really missed having someone to call when I was away and having someone here when I came home. I came to an empty dark house :-( I did call my daughter and chatted to her but she was out when I got in. Somehow it is not the same as having your husband at home and looking forward to coming back to him.

I still really really miss him and still find it hard to talk to him without crying. And I still hate her so much.

Dear God - still no sign.......
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