In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 2 March 2011

Mr Blue Sky

There is so much around that brings back so many memories of being with my husband. On the way home today 'Mr Blue Sky' by ELO came on the radio. It brought tears to my eyes as it made me think of some of our happy happy early years together. And in chat with some friends I felt so sad because I know my husband is a good, kind, caring man and I'll never find anyone like that again. So many friends never have had the opportunity to appreciate such a kind thoughtful husband. It hurts so much to know that the manipulating ***** is getting that love and caring now - stolen from me.

My daughter went to the doctors today because she is bursting into tears about everything. She was hoping the doctor would help but she didn't do anything apart from saying come back in two weeks. Talking about why she is feeling so low, one of the key reasons is because of my husband leaving us. The manipulating ***** reckons that her kids are unaffected about the situation - her and her husband splitting up, him moving out and a strange (ish) man moving in. Either they have very different values in life or something will show up in time.
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