In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Saturday, 26 March 2011

So hypocritical or is it double standards?

Well what can I say except that I am really really cross. I discovered that the manipulating ***** is buying a trampoline for her kids. You might ask what is wrong with that ? Well two things in my mind - firstly they have no money apparently but they can somehow afford that luxury and secondly our daughters always wanted a trampoline and he didn't want one in the garden. That has really upset me and has led me to thinking about everything again. I was feeling a bit better but this has set me back again. I went to see a film at the cinema with my daughter and was worried I would bump into both of them.

My youngest daughters birthday is coming up in May and she has told me she doesn't want a present from him. He has texted her and asked her to go to coffee but she doesn't want to. She hasn't replied yet.

I get very few texts from him now and had no reply to the one I sent asking if he wants me to get him one ticket for the next musical I'll be in at the concessionary price we get for a month. I don't know how I will manage if he wants her to go along with him. It actually makes me feel physically sick thinking about it. I feel so sad again :-( I must have been an awful wife otherwise he wouldn't have left me .
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  1. Michael Horne27 March 2011 at 11:43

    Almost speechless at this :-(

    He must be regretting his decision, surely. Perhaps he now feels trapped and doesn't feel there's a way back?

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