In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Thursday, 10 March 2011

What did today bring ?

Ive started crying in the car again and keep thinking about him. I'm definitely going backwards for some odd reason. I now just want to curl up at home and not speak to anyone or do anything. I'm finding it hard to motivate myself and am getting behind with my ou. He hasn't been in touch for a couple of days now. I think I am running on empty now and have no idea how to fill up again - anyone got any ideas ? Life is so hard at the moment. I try to think about those not so well off to get things in proportion.

I came up with the concept of 'simplify myLife' today. Need to give that more thought.
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