In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 20 March 2011

I want to see Elly :-(

Well last night my husband attended the quiz I was at. I find it very hard to talk to him ........ he looked very old, drawn and tired yesterday. His new lifestyle is definitely affecting him and it doesn't look like its for the good.....

Today I went on the photo course he booked for me as a Christmas present. It was an OK day, not amazing - my back is really playing up badly. As it was in a park there were loads of dogs there and I discovered I really missed our dog Elly. It brought tears to my eyes and I decided that I would ask for him to bring her around to say hello when I get back from the next business trip.

I'm off again next week this time to the US so don't know if I'll get a chance to blog at all - so may not be back till Friday.
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