In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 15 March 2011

Off on a business trip

I'll be away for the next few days on a business trip. I'm a bit anxious as I will be leaving my 18 year old daughter alone in the house for the next three days. I also am not quite sure how I will handle a trip away on my own especially as I will have loads of time travelling on my own to think about things.

One of the good things will be that I can sleep without the interruption of a cat meowing and purring around my head!

I had a bit of a drive today for work and ended up thinking all kinds of things again - the scariest being what will happen at Christmas this year and its only March !

My daughter told me that she had ordered tickets for her graduation today but could only get two. She can't apply for the others till early May and there is no guarantee she will get any more. These first two are for me and her boyfriend.  Should I let my husband know that he may not get a ticket now, or wait until after May when we find out one way or the other ?

I forgot to mention last Friday that when my husband popped in to pick up post (I was working from home), he told me his life was very hard  - not having enough money and having to work so hard in a badly paid job. I told him I still loved him and missed him and that he could come back. He just said he can't because he loved 'her' then started to cry and walked out - what do I make of that ????

Anyhow I probably won't be able to post for a few days - so catch up soon x
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