In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 28 March 2011

Down Day - maybe its time to say goodbye

Its been a 'down day' today with me being really tearful all day. I got a text from him telling me she has a right for her friends to see them as a couple, then I got another one saying she had taken the pic down as I was so upset. Now she seems like the kind reasonable one to him - he doesn't see how insensitive and cruel it was to put it up in the first place. He made me cry at work. He keeps sending me these kind of texts when I am at work ! He also left me a voice message to say it wasn't done to hurt me and that they are a couple now and so want to let her friends see that.

Everything feels like it is slipping away from me - one of our joint friends is now socialising with them both even though they were not friends with her before. She is stealing my life - may as well not be here any more.
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