In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Saturday, 12 March 2011

An interesting perspective

I had lunch with an ex work colleague who knows my husband pretty well and is an astute individual. He had a very different perspective from everyone else on the situation and has given me loads of food for thought.

My husband is keen to help me out where he can and so went and bought a toilet seat and fitted it for me in place of the broken one. I am very torn about letting him do things for me. Torn between that and just getting on with it myself.

My daughter sent in her draft dissertation and was much happier :-)

Had another fun karaoke evening and got tiddly again - this is a regular occurrence now - is that bad ?
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