In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 6 March 2011

Is she spying ?

I found out today that the manipulating ***** uses my husband's laptop to go on fb and that is why it looked like he was going on skype. When I pinged him the other day, she would have seen it - I wonder if she also automatically gets to go on his fb ? If so it feels like she is spying on me. I wish now I had written something else on skype !!

I managed to get a bad assignment written and sent in - I'm expecting a very bad mark for this. I am finding it really really hard to concentrate. In fact in lots of ways my life stinks at the moment. Its late now and I need some sleep so I'm not going to write anything more.....................
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