In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Friday, 25 March 2011

I'm back after a business trip to the us this week. I really missed having someone at home that was looking forward to coming back and whom I called each day. Made me feel quite lonely :-( I am now beginning to enjoy my freedom but do still love and miss him. My back is playing up still, I can't seem to get it sorted. I'm still up and down but I think the balance has shifted to more up than down now which is good. My daughter noted how clean, tidy and girlie the house now was and that she liked it. I have a very busy weekend again. I need some me rime methinks. Time to sleep now I've been awake for about 40 hours as I can't get to sleep on the plane. Oh just remembered that my husband has texted my youngest daughter and asked her to coffee. She hasn't responded as she doesn't want to.....
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