In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 1 February 2011

Scary

I'm not going to write much today as I know it will all sound depressive........... I keep crying in the car, when people talk to me etc. etc. Its actually worse now than before.

One scary thing though is that I joined a forum to talk to others going through similar experiences like me and I have been contacted by a gentleman who wants to make friends. I have told him my situation but also said I'd be happy to chat via the forum. He contacted me based on the photo I posted - said I had a nice smile :-)

I don't want another relationship as I am still praying and hoping my husband will come back. I told my daughter about this guy and she just smiled and said - see you've still 'got it' - so funny !
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