In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 9 February 2011

Maybe I am still in denial ?

I am still chatting to this guy on the forum I mentioned ( and no it is not a dating or match making site). He seems very nice and understanding. I am super wary though as I don't want another relationship and he is looking for one. I'm scared I'll get lured into something I really don't want. But through talking with him I do wonder if I am still in denial ..... I still think I love my husband but so many people have pointed out how wrong he has been to do what he did and that if he really really loved and cared for me he wouldn't have done it. Also I've been told to stop beating myself up as I haven't done anything wrong , he has. This guy wants to talk on the phone - should I ? I'm so confused :-(
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