In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 28 February 2011

I got a 'Love you'

Another busy and stressful day at work. I still can't get my emails under 100 unread both at work and home :-(

I had a text from my husband today and he finished it with 'Love you'. This is the first time he has said that since he left. I wonder if that is significant or if I am reading too much into it ?

I discovered some more people today who still didn't know <sigh>. He popped down to the theatre group today briefly. I was helping behind the bar so didn't really see him or speak to him.

I'm still tired and can't sleep well or even get to sleep at a reasonable time. My daughter and her boyfriend said they plan to spend more time in our house which will be nice.

Ho hum - guess I should get to bed - I wonder if I can do it before midnight, I have 13 minutes and counting.........
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