In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 16 February 2011

Why is it ......?

That I can be OK one day and then I talk to him and I go backwards. He called this evening to talk to me about something and my previous up beat feeling vanished immediately :-(

I had a lovely surprise when I walked in this evening from work in that my daughter from university came home for a few days. And then my other daughter and her boyfriend decided to come and stay over after their meal out. It is so nice having a fuller house again.

I was woken up at 6am this morning by the cat insisting on poking me, purring in my ear and lying on top of me. So I am shattered and am off to bed for some sleep. I can't be bothered to do email or respond back to the forum guy. I owe him a message from Tuesday. I hope he doesn't think I am annoyed with him.......
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