In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 21 February 2011

A fraught day

Its been a fraught day today. I had to call the nurse at the doctors after getting a message to call them back and we had to take one of the cats to the vet. The nurse told me that they found protein and nitrates in the urine sample I took in on Friday and so they have sent it to the lab for testing. Apparently you can get Protein in your urine if you are stressed ;-/ I have to call for the results in the next few days along with the blood test results.

The vet gave the cat a shot of antibiotics. If she doesn't start eating in the next day or two we'll have to take her back and then........ :-( I called my husband to let him know about the cat so he met us down at the vets. My daughter wouldn't talk to him unless he asked her direct questions. I could see he was getting irritated about it. We talked but again really only about bits and bobs. He seemed to know I was going away this weekend and with whom.......... I didn't really want him to know.

I know I still miss him and still can't understand why he has done this to himself, the girls and me. What is the attraction with HER ????????????? It has to be sex after all she isn't particularly attractive or nice (oh I am a *****!). Apparently our dog is getting aggressive to them and very protective of things she steals. But she is also being sick at nights. Maybe she can see straight through the manipulating ***** for what she is - dogs after all are intelligent creatures :-)

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