In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 8 February 2011

RIP Olive

Another very emotional day. I went to church today to attend the funeral of a lovely lovely lady. I spent the whole service crying my eyes out. For the loss of Olive, my faith and my husband. Everyone was so nice. One person - the most unlikely -  came and sat next to me and just hugged me - they were so kind and the last person I ever expected to be so understanding. Then one of the other ladies told me that her husband left her and said things that were almost identical to what my husband has said and done. Our previous curate was there too and also gave me a hug and invited me to come over to her at some point to chat - I may just do that.....

Unusual for me I also planned some me things today - little things but as I never usually spend much money on me it is a change. Maybe I'm starting to move on ??
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