In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 22 February 2011

Sinking....................

I think I am slowly sinking :-( Everything I am involved in is full on at the moment, work, school governors, OU, theatre group, sick cat, my health (maybe - need to get the results still) and emotions, I'm not getting to bed early enough because I have so much to do and then I am woken by the cat early. Something will break soon......

A problem for me though is when I make a commitment I feel I have to follow through - I don't like to let others down.

Mr Forum has slowed down his messages to me now, maybe he has found someone else. That's ok with me though as I said before, I'm not looking for another relationship ..... apart from the emotional aspects - I don't have time !
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