In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Thursday, 10 February 2011

I can't move on

So here I am lying in bed again on my own in the house. I got up went to work - went to governors meeting - came home and went to bed. And again I have had time to think and am missing my husband and hating her again. I don't think I can let go :-( I feel I need to tell her what I feel - the message I sent her in reply to the one she sent to me never got to her because my husband intercepted it and then deleted it - so I feel I have unfinshed buisness with her. Until I have done that I'm not sure I can move on. I have thought about printing it off and putting it in the post to her.

That party that I mentioned previously .... I haven't seen an invite yet, so I'm guessing it is either not happening or I have not been invited.

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