In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 20 February 2011

At last ! I manged to lie in to almost 11am !! I did wake up a few times but it was lovely to sleep :-) And I had a rather unusual dream - two nice young men, one of which I got a bit saucy with and a tunnel that went under Stevenage. The tunnel was full of interesting people including a group of eldery (60/70ish) ladies in belly dancing costumes. Now I'd love to have this dream analysed :-D

My duaghter went back to uni but didn't want to do, so we had tears. When she is back for a bit longer at Easter I have promise both of them we'll have some girly days. My other duaghter is going through a period of depression - part of which is due to my husband leaving. She doesn't want him to come back and thinks I shouldn't.

One of our cats who has been ill seems to be going downhill. Looks like that will be a trip to the vet tomorrow. I'm not looking forward to that as I am expecting the worst.

I'm not hearing from my husband much at the moment. Not sure if that is good or bad......

My forum guy is still writing and still dropping loads of hints, but I still have no photo.

How am I feeling at the moment ? More positive, still confused, still hate 'her' with a passion, overwhelmed with everything, enjoying some of being 'single' but hating other aspects. 
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