In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 25 April 2011

What would I do without my friends ?

Its been a little emotional for me this weekend and not when I expected..... I went out with a bunch of friends last night for a karaoke and disco. I didn't get drunk this time but had a wicked time dancing, however I just suddenly burst into tears - I have no idea what set me off but it was the first time for a while. My friends were so supportive gathering around me and then one of them grabbed me to dance, and one by one each of the fellows in our party danced with me - it made me feel so special - I haven't felt like that for a long time. Thank you thank you thank you - you are so wonderful to me xx

My husband texted my daughters having a go at them for not thanking him for their Easter eggs. Whilst I agree they should say thank you and be polite - I did think it out of order for him to send them that text - how petty !
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