I was having such a lovely day yesterday having taken my two daughters out for the day to be pampered at Champneys (a long over due treat) and then was looking forward to seeing a local show and having an after show curry and then my husband rang as I was getting ready to leave for the show.
He proceeded to tell me that the manipulating *****'s husband had gone around to their house VERY drunk and tried to beat my husband to a pulp. He managed to rip his shirt off him completely and punched her in the head ! It took her and her 18 year old son all their strength to pull him off my husband. This all happened in front of their kids. He has also threatened to stab my husband ! What kind of family has he got himself involved with ? I have to say my heart went to my stomach as I thought my husband had been hurt but he says he is fine. He said he wanted to let me know so I know the facts and not rumours I may hear. Do I have to worry now that her husband may come around here and do something ?
I've had a couple of very late nights (well 4am's) this weekend - I think I am doing all the things I should have done as a teenager/early 20s but was too sensible to do ! Anyhow my youngest daughter asked me on Monday what time I came in the previous night and when I said 4am she answered with 'are you ok ?' I said yes but was a bit tired after a couple of late nights at which she responded 'well you shouldn't be out partying to all hours of the night!' - who is the mum here !!!!! LOL
In the beginning
On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.
His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !
We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.
I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.
This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx
His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !
We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.
I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.
This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx
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