In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 5 April 2011

What on earth is going on ??

Something strange is going on and I think the manipulating ***** is playing games. I used to be able to see her picture on fb, but never her wall. Then after the 'picture' episode she blocked me completely. Suddenly tonight I discover (accidentally) that I can now see her wall. I know for a fact that you have to actively unblock people - so she has unblocked me. This has to be deliberate and an attempt to cause upset all over again. She is not stupid as she claims she is and she is definatetly manipulative. I wonder what excuse she will use with my husband as to why this happened !!

I'm having a stressful time again - my daughters are stressing or are down due to various things and this isn't helping me at all. I am trying to keep them upbeat whilst keeping up with all the things I need to do. I am still behind on my OU and can't see a time at the moment when I can catch up. Its now 12:30 am and I desperately need some sleep.

Its been a while since I mentioned the forum man. We are still chatting but he is writing less often and less content. Maybe he has got bored....... he is currently out of action anyhow as he is having a hip replacement. Though he comes over as a very nice man - I don't think I would be interested. In fact I don't think I would ever marry again. My whole view on marriage has changed................... why would one bother when all it does is cause hurt ?
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