In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Friday, 1 July 2011

He's having a laugh!

On this day of your life, Slava, we believe God wants you to know ... that contentment comes from unconditional love.
Message from God
When you love conditionally, you have to keep deciding if the other is worthy of your love. You can never let go of your guard enough to be content. Why not decide once and for all, and love once and for all. And be content.        

Ha ! I did and see what happened ............ I am not contented anymore .

However two of my wonderful friends have managed to get the TV in the living room working again using different cables :-) Thanks guys - you know who you are xx  Now I need to wait for the technician to come from the insurance to assess it - a whole week and they won't replace my daughters TV until that is done as it is one claim - so she is not happy :-( She did however manage to get one days work as silver service maitress and has been 'selected' to do another day for someone's 70th birthday. They selected only the pretty ones and they have to wear denim hot pants and flip flops!!!!!!

I'm sitting here on my own as both daughtes have gone out and I'm waiting to find out what if anything we are doing tonight. Its drinking night :-D



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