In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 13 July 2011

Such a rubbish few days

The exciting wild Friday and Saturday nights seem to have cooled off - shame as I miss having fun on a Friday night. Loads of my friends have found happiness or new things to keep them busy. I guess everything changes at some point - its just a bit sooner than I would have liked. I went to the wedding on Saturday and a couple of my lovely friends were just that - lovely :-) However I had tears and really didn't feel like partying.

Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday I felt quite lonely again as I was on my own for quite a bit of it - and when not physically alone I still felt alone.

Work is manic and at school today doing my governors duties I was verbally attacked by a couple of people - I really really can do without that. Whilst I am so sad at giving up my governorship it is the right decision at the moment.

I came home to feathers all over the place. Once again one of the cats must have had a bird - but no bird in sight so I assume she had eaten it - feet and all !

The TV is now working having been the wall socket blown by the lightening. The technician from the insurance who came on Saturday put his report in and I now have a new amp and TV for my daughter arriving at some point.

Thankfully my nails seem to be growing again and the skin problem is starting to get better.

I'm due to have a busy couple of weeks with a business trip to the US and then my OU residential for a week. Oh and in the middle we have my daughters graduation. My husband is coming to that, so we'll see .......

I'm supposed to be going to a friends birthday party on Saturday and I really want to go but I don't want to drive as I'd like a drink. I have no idea if anyone else is going and driving. I had hoped a few of us may share a taxi there and back to make it cost efficient - but ho hum - I may have to give it a miss. I guess it is probably not a good idea to get drunk the night before you are due to go on a 7.5hr plane trip.

I'm still adding to my list of things I want to do - but at the moment can't see me doing many of them as they need a companion :-(
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