In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 24 July 2011

It would have been 29 years today

Today was my husband and my 29th wedding anniversary :-( I have been deliverately trying not to think about it and guess what  - he sends me a text saying 'Just wanted you to know that I haven't forgotten what today is. Thinking about you loads and hoping you have a reasonable day. x'. What am I supposed to make of that ? If nothing else it brought it to my mind and made me shed a tear.

As I look around at the folk at my course and look at myself, I feel very sad - I don't think anyone would want a fat old bird like me. I feel so uncomfortable being 'available'. I wouldn't know what to do. Looks like I will end up being a miserable old woman as I have no reason to be otherwise.
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