In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 29 June 2011

Feeling sad today

I'm feeling really sad tonight as a number of my friends seem to be falling out with each other for various reasons. These friends have been so supportive to me over the last few months and I feel almost helpless as I don't want to take any sides (I love them all for who they are).

The recent thunderstorms seem to have zapped our amp that connects everything to the tv so we can't get a picture and my daughters tv appears not to be working either. So the house is very quiet.... My husband did come to try and sort the amp out seeing as it was his toy when he bought it a number of years ago. He had no success - so its a call to the insurance now. It was nice of him to try.

I did a one night show on Monday which we had just four weeks to rehearse. I sort of enjoyed it as we were a small group but who all got on ok together. I am however glad it is over so I can get on with my studying. The MD of the show (my guardian angel) had a chat with me again - she is so reasoned and as she doesn't know my husband can be totally honest and unbiased.

I had planned to do more tonight, but tvs, discussions with various folk and just sorting house things out stopped me. I even put the iron on intending to iron some clothes but it is now 11:30pm so I think bed is calling.

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