In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Tuesday, 21 June 2011

I forgot to say

That my husband came around on Saturday and we ended up chatting again about the house and my concerns that she will ask him to force selling it. He once again said that I can stay in the house for as long as i want. He only wants a share of it at the point I am ready to sell, which he also noted could be never ! I spoke to the solicitor again and she said he can't force a sale if I don't want to. If he thought it should be sold for some reason and I refused he would have to go to court. I also spoke to him about a deed of separation. I don't want to go down that route yet and he couldn't afford a solicitor anyhow. I wonder if I am feeling so down again because of this conversation ?

On a more positive note I have booked a weeks holiday with a friend in august to santoruni. Something to look forward to but 8 weeks away still. I need something to help me move on now :-(
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