In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Wednesday, 8 June 2011

Where are the bruises coming from ?

I think my body is very confused....... I had a wonderful night of dance on Monday with a class followed by two audition pieces (one tap) for our next show. I really thought I was going to ache but I didn't !
On the other hand I have a whole load of bruises on my arms and hands and I don't recall bumping or hitting them. Additioanlly my nails keep breaking, chipping and peeling and I now have either eczema or dermatitis or something on my face - what is going on ??? I'm going to have to keep an eye on it - I'm particularly worried about the bruises :-(
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2 comments:

  1. Me Discovering Me9 June 2011 at 14:31

    Hi, Slava
    Just wanted to say hi, and sorry for not being around. There just doesn't seem anytime to focus on anything other than day to day living and I am so confused at the moment that I just don't know what to write on my blog. Thoughts and emotions are just all over the place. Don't know what advice to give you either. Life just isn't fair in my opinion. Wish you were feeling better :-(
    MDM x

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  2. Hertspoppy11 June 2011 at 12:40

    Hi MDM,

    Sorry to hear you are down at the moment. I find that writing on my blog helps me to get my mind clear and gives me an opportunity to write my thoughts down which I find hard to discuss with anyone. There is much more I would write but probably is not appropriate ! Life does suck and its sad that we are very much in a 'me' culture where most people seems to only be concerned with themselves at the expence of others. No wonder we have so much conflict in the world. Please take care - thinking of you x

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