In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 8 May 2011

One step forward and two back

Well my husband texted me today to let me know that he has been kept in his job after his probationary period. That is great for him. And apparently she has signed on !

I had a bit of a tear today as someone put a lovely helpful comment on my blog - it is so nice to know that someone out there is reading this and can empathise through experience - though I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I happened to mention that I had a blog to one of my friends and then couldn't say anymore as I got very emotional.

Yesterday I was in the park where they walk the dogs for a photo shoot for the show I am doing. I was really worried that I would see them and was nervously looking around all the time. I also just realised that I am avoiding very public places where I may see them such as in the town centre and Sainsburys. So once again the manipulating ***** has managed to affect me in other ways. I go to work, the theatre group, the school, home and various pubs with friends and outside of that I don't go anywhere.

Its definitely still one step forward and two back at the moment. I'm looking forward to when it can be reversed and then eventually all forward...............
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