In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 2 May 2011

More Positive

I feel a little more positive about things today. My fantastic friends came around and helped with sorting out my garden in return for food. Even though it was hard work - we did lots and had a lovely day together. Its great to have such caring friends. I never thought anyone would do something like that for me.....

My husband is still texting me - the girls are still not talking to him. I do still love him and miss him - BUT I'm starting to get used to living alone - most of the time. I do miss the companionship and someone to talk to. The house is tidier and we are going to party party in the garden more :-) Whilst that all seems fun at the moment I do wonder if it will wear off eventually ?
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