So much has happened since I last posted. My daughter had an accident in her car last Sunday in the early hours but didn't tell me till she got up mid afternoon. After a good friend came around to have a look we took it to quik fit only to discover that it was not safe to drive. She had bent the wishbone and damaged the sub frame. It is going to cost 2500 pounds to fix. It was so hard to decide what to do on my own. It is an old car but I only recently had to get all the brakes done. Do I scrap it and go for another car or do I get it fixed ? I've gone with getting it fixed - but have I made the right decision? I had to get my husband involved as my daughter was giving me a hard time about scrapping it.
On Tuesday my boss decided to slag me off in front of my peers when he thought I wasn't on the telephone. I got an apologetic voice message from him but his behaviour was out of order. And then I had a wierd end of year review with him talking more about my past work rather than working with him. Thankfully I am moving back to the team and boss I was with before and one of the programmes ( the one the difficult boss was sponsoring) has been passed to someone else, so I can now concentrate on just the two strategic programmes.
Then on weds I discovered that the cats had fleas. I'm bitten all over and because of that and my daughters car I haven't been eating or sleeping properly :-( I've spent today stripping the beds and de flea ing the house. But I'm sitting in bed and I'm still itching. I hope that it is psychological and not fleas who have survived....... My back is killing me due to he work involved. I'm not convinced the flea stuff has actually eliminated the fleas from our black cat :-( so they are currently banned from my room.
Thursday I sang solo for the first time in a little show a few of us did for a sheltered housing place. Apparently I did ok !
Today I got back late after helping and participating in a FUNd raising evening with the theatre group. I think we raised nearly £2000.
The gils put up the tree and decorated it. They have gone for a white and silver scheme.
Finally I got my blood tests back on tuesday - all was ok bar the glucose and they had forgotten to do the CA125 so I have to go back next week. I have my scan on Friday and then have a octors appt mid jan.
Please let 2012 be a better year ! I am officially off work now till jan, but have to work on tuesday....
Got a busy week planned next week - I hope it's a better one !
In the beginning
On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.
His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !
We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.
I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.
This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx
His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !
We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.
I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.
This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx
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