In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 29 August 2011

I've just come back from a lovely weekend in Wales with four great friends (thank you if you are reading this xx). They made me feel very welcome as did all the folk we met on the caravan park we were staying on. We had a great time with a boat ride that soaked us all to our skin. It was so funny walking back with wet jeans and knickers!! We had a super bbq with the folk on the caravan site and as we had brought the keyboard with us also had a sing song - it was so much fun. One of the folk got very drunk and called me Sletvana - so I now seem to have a new name - lol !! It was so nice and another chance to chill out before going back to work. I can't wait for the next break.

My husband called me today in the morning and asked me if I was still in Wales and whether I had gone on my own or with someone else. I said I was with friends, but didn't say who. He sounded upset that I didn't. Is it wrong for me to not tell him everything ? I know he still wants to be friends and part of our lives, but I kind of feel that as he left I shouldn't be obliged to give him all the details.

One of my friends from my Santorini holiday shared this quote with me :

 Dance like no one is watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like no one is listening, Live like it's heaven on earth.   Purkey, William

I found a notepad with this on the front so had to buy it. I love the quote and will try to remember it at all times so that it helps me move on.
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