In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Monday, 15 August 2011

Feeling chilled

Well I have two weeks holiday from work now and am spending a week away with a girlfriend in Santorini starting tomorrow. I'm really looking forward to the break. I went and had a pedicure and bikini wax done today -  I won't tell you which sort :-D  I had a lovely chat with the beautician. She told me what she thought of my husband and particularly the manipulating *****.

I managed to get the most important OU assignment in on Sunday - this one is worth 20% of the examinable component of the final mark. Fingers crossed I get a good mark.

I'm feeling a little more positive now so I hope it lasts. Maybe the tide is turning ? A old friend died on Sunday morning - every time something like that happens I think that I must just try and enjoy my life to the fullest, so starting to get the odd moment of silliness.

Any hoo - catch up with you all when I get back x
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2 comments:

  1. Me Discovering Me15 August 2011 at 15:57

    Hi, Slava

    Sorry I missed you. Hope you have a great holiday and come back fighting fit. Things seem to be getting better this end but I still feel uncertain as to whether he really wants to be here or is just making the best of things. He has been off the drink now for TWO weeks and the difference it has made to my life is just indescribable. So proud of him. It does feel a bit like we were in the very beginning but I am very paranoid about what might be going on 'virtually' behind my back. Just hope that goes with time.

    Always thinking of you. Have a fantastic, enjoyable break. Catch you when you get back.

    Love
    MDM x

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  2. Me Discovering Me17 August 2011 at 15:13

    Hi Slava. Hope it's going well and you're relaxing and having some fun. Thinking of you MDM xx

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