In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 7 September 2014

Time to delete him from Facebook

Well here we are a week before my youngest daughter goes to university. She is so excited :-) Today she went for a drink with her father before she leaves. He confirmed the 'engagement' and doing it in October - I'm guessing for her birthday (50th I think) which is in October. If so again very thoughtless as we got engaged on my 21st birthday. Apparently they plan to get married in four years time. I think I have decided to unfriend him on Facebook now. I don't think I can bear to see the 'announcement' on there. Why does this all make me so sad and tearful after nearly four years ?

I am once again feeling very left out and alone - friends have their lives to live and have their own needs and problems. I fear that I will be finding myself very alone in the coming months :-(

My daughters and I had a lovely day yesterday at a spa as a treat - I enjoyed that :-)
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