In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Sunday, 9 October 2016

Keeping Busy

It's been a couple of months since I last wrote so I thought it time to pen (or type!) something again.
So I've as usual kept myself busy and done loads that I really enjoy. I'm enjoying being a 'lady of leisure' but still need that intellectual challenge.

I have now been voted in officially as a trustee and director of the charity I have joined and am enjoying the company of the other trustees and the staff when I attend meetings etc. They are all such lovely thoughtful people.

I had a great few days in Amsterdam with my daughter and her boyfriend - and yes I did try a brownie - but no it had no effect on me !!

I loved a four day drama course that I did in August - so much fun and I learnt loads. I have a real hang up about my singing so when the musical teacher said I had a fantastic voice it made my year and I think it has really given me so much more confidence to step out and try more singing.

I also was fortunate to be asked to play a small part in the professional outdoor production of a Midsummer Night's Dream that I was helping to produce. I sooo enjoyed it and it was a brilliant experience.

I've been to Leeds Castle and Buckingham Palace in the last few weeks and am enjoying my time at the gym and being welcomed into the gym ladies circle.

Boy ......I have done a lot in the last few months! I am so lucky :-)

I am actually really enjoying life and am happier in myself and being single. I still have challenges and have my down days but it is getting better. Though I know that I am not completely over my ex leaving me for HER.

So what's coming up for me in the next few months ? I am in a show next week where I get to do some singing including a quartet with harmonies - a great challenge :-) I'm directing the next variety show and I have my long awaited trip to the Galapagos Islands - lots to look forward to plus my birthday and Christmas - yay !

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