In the beginning

On Monday 6th December my husband of over 28 years declared that he is leaving me for another woman. Apparently I have done nothing wrong and he still loves me but is not 'in love' with me.

His affair started around 18 months ago by 'the other woman' contacting and propositioning him on facebook. Now he is no angel as he should have said no - but why would a woman deliberately set out to break up a marriage that was not in trouble just because hers was on the rocks ? To be fair to my husband he told me after I noted that he seemed to be distant - at least I didn't find out via some other route !

We tried twice to make a go of it but both times she managed to come back into his life again opening up wounds and making him think again of her never really giving us a chance. She claims she is 'thick' but I think she targeted him as she could see what a wonderful man is he and wanted him to replace her broken marriage (by her I hasten to add). I also think she is a manipulating *****.

I still love my husband as he is my soulmate and always has been and also was my best friend. So not only has she stolen my husband, she has stolen my soulmate and my best friend.

This blog will hopefully be therapeutic for me and maybe help others who find themselves in a similar situation xx





Thursday, 3 January 2013

Petition for Divorce issued

I've just received an email from the solicitor telling me that the Petition for Divorce was issued by the court on 27th December 2012 and what the next steps areI know I need to move on but after nearly two years I still don't want this. I fear every letter and email I receive from the Solicitor and this one made me shake and cry, I'm terrified of the whole process and know it is going to be very painful :-(

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  1. Anonymous4 January 2013 at 09:44

    It's never going to be a nice process - but be strong and journey on through this - the sun will shine again on you and you'll be glad you got through it.

    The process is cold and calculated but - it's just a process... a legal process. The hurt you have felt over the last two years is much more than this.... which means... You have battled through the hard part.

    Think of it a story arc.... you have had the uphill bit... the pain... and everything you felt. Yes you may still feel those things... but it's happened and you got through that bit.

    Now it's on the other side of the arch, and you'll get through that just as you did the uphill bit.

    YOU GROW STRONGER FROM THIS POINT.

    Much love from a friend who's not near x

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